心态决定命运
为什么有些人就是比其他的人更成功，赚更多的钱，拥有不错的工作，良好的人际关系，健康的身体，整天快快乐乐地过着高品质的人生，似乎他们的生活就是比别人过的好。而许多人忙忙碌碌地劳作却只能维持生计。其实，人与人之间并没有多大的区别。但为什么有许多人能够获得成功，能够克服万难去建功立业，有些人却不行？
不少心理学专家发现，这个秘密就是人的“心态”。一位哲人说： “你的心态就是你真正的主人。”一位伟人说：“要么你去驾驭生命，要么是生命驾驭你。你的心态决定谁是坐骑，谁是骑师。”
大概是40年前，福建某贫穷的乡村里，住了兄弟两人。他们抵受不了穷困的环境，便决定离开家乡，到海外去谋发展。大哥好像幸运些，被奴隶般卖到了富庶的旧金山，弟弟被卖到比中国更穷困的菲律宾。
40年后，兄弟俩又幸运地聚在一起。今日的他们，已今非昔比了。做哥哥的，当了旧金山的侨领，拥有两间餐馆，两间洗衣店和一间杂货铺，而且子孙满堂，有些承继衣钵，又有些成为杰出的工程师或电脑工程师等科技专业人才。
弟弟呢？居然成了一位享誉世界的银行家，拥有东南亚相当分量的山林、橡胶园和银行。经过几十年的努力，他们都成功了。但为什么兄弟两人在事业上的成就，却有如此的差别呢？
兄弟聚头，不免谈谈分别以来的遭遇。哥哥说，我们中国人到白人的社会，既然没有什么特别的才干，唯有用一双手煮饭给白人吃，为他们洗衣服。总之，白人不肯做的工作，我们华人统统顶上了，生活是没有问题的，但事业却不敢奢望了。例如我的子孙，书虽然读得不少，也不敢妄想，唯有安安分分地去担当一些中层的技术性工作来谋生。至于要进入上层的白人社会，相信很难办到。
看见弟弟这般成功，做哥哥的，不免羡慕弟弟的幸福。弟弟却说，幸运是没有的。初来菲律宾的时候，担任些低贱的工作，但发现当地的人有些是比较愚蠢和懒惰的，于是便顶下他们放弃的事业，慢慢地不断收购和扩张，生意便逐渐做大了。
以上是真实的故事，反映了海外华人的奋斗历史。它告诉我们：影响我们人生的绝不仅仅是环境，心态控制了个人的行动和思想。同时，心态也决定了自己的视野、事业和成就。
有两位年届70岁的老太太，一位认为到了这个年纪可算是人生的尽头，于是便开始料理后事；另一位却认为一个人能做什么事不在于年龄的大小，而在于怎么个想法。于是，她在70岁高龄之际开始学习登山，其中几座还是世界上有名的。就在最近还以95岁高龄登上了日本的富士山，打破攀登此山年龄最高的纪录。她就是著名的胡达·克鲁斯老太太。
70岁开始学习登山，这乃是一大奇迹。但奇迹是人创造出来的。成功人士的首要标志，是他思考问题的方法。一个人如果是个积极思维者，实行积极思维、喜欢接受挑战和应付麻烦事，那他就成功了一半。胡达·克鲁斯老太太的壮举正验证了这一点。
一个人能否成功，就看他的态度了！成功人士与失败者之间的差别是：成功人士始终用最积极的思考、最乐观的精神和最辉煌的经验支配和控制自己的人生。失败者则刚好相反，他们的人生是受过去的种种失败与疑虑所引导支配的。
有些人总喜欢说，他们现在的境况是别人造成的。这些人常说他们的想法无法改变。但是，我们的境况不是周围环境造成的。说到底，如何看待人生把握人生由我们自己决定。
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Decide the fate mentality
Why do some people than other people is more successful, make more money, have good work, good interpersonal skills, good health, happy to live a full day of high quality of life, it seems that their life is over Others had the good. And many people busy and crafts can only maintain their livelihood. In fact, between people and there is not much difference. But why do many people can be successful, be able to overcome Wannan to make contributions, some people are not »
Many psychologists found that the secret is the "mentality." A philosopher said: "your mind is your real masters." A great man said: "Either you control the lives, either to control your life. Your mind to decide who is the horse, who is the jockey."
Probably 40 years ago, a poor village in Fujian, the two brothers lived. They arrived in the environment can not stand the poor, they decided to leave his hometown, to seek overseas development. Big Brother seems more fortunate, as slaves were sold to the affluent San Francisco, the younger brother was sold to China more than the poor of the Philippines.
40, the brothers also lucky enough to get together. Today, they have a今非昔比. Do brother, when the San Francisco of the overseas Chinese, has two restaurants, two laundry and a Zahuo Pu, but Zisunmantang, some inherited legacy, and some become an outstanding engineer or computer engineer, and other technology professionals.
Brother? » Actually became a world-renowned bankers, with a considerable amount of forests in Southeast Asia, rubber plantation and the banks. After several decades of efforts, they succeeded. But why two brothers in the cause of the achievements, there is such a difference »
Brother-head, respectively, since inevitably talk about the experience. My brother said, we Chinese people to the white community, since there is no special competence, with only a white hands to eat meals, washing clothes for them. In short, whites refused to do the work, we Chinese统统hand, life is no problem, but they dare not expect the cause. For example, my children and grandchildren, read a book while many, not wishful thinking, the only way to play Ann Building Members present at some of the middle-level technical work to make a living. As to enter the top of the white community, I believe it is very difficult to do so.
See my brother so successful, so my brother, my brother can not envy the well-being. His brother said, is not lucky. Philippines to the beginning of time, as more Dijian work, but found that some local people are more stupid and lazy, so they give up the top of their cause, slowly continued acquisition and expansion of the business will gradually expand.
The above is true story, reflects the history of the struggle overseas Chinese. It tells us: no impact on our lives is not only the environment, the attitude control of the individual actions and thinking. Meanwhile, the mentality has decided its own vision, the cause and achievements.
Two years of 70-year-old woman, a view that at this age can be said to be the end of life, so they started cooking funeral; Another is that a person can do is not the size of the age, but how Thought. Thus, in her 70-year-old started learning of the climbers, including several well-known or the world. Just recently a 95-year-old also appeared on the Japan's Mount Fuji, climbing the mountain to break the oldest record. She is the famous Da Cruz-old woman.
70-year-old began to learn mountain climbing, this is a miracle. But miracles are created by people. The success of the primary signs that he thought the problem. If a person is a positive thinking, positive thinking and like to accept challenges and cope with trouble, he's successful by half. Da Cruz-old woman's feat was verified this point.
The success of a person depends on his attitude! Successful and the difference between the losers are: the most successful people always use the positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most glorious experience of domination and control over their own life. Losers while on the contrary, their life is subject to the past failures and concerns dominated by the guide.
Some people always like to say, they are now the situation is caused by others. These Ren Changshuo their ideas can not be changed. However, our situation is not caused by the surrounding environment. After all, how to view life from the grasp of our own life decisions
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为什么有些人就是比其他的人更成功，赚更多的钱，拥有不错的工作，良好的人际关系，健康的身体，整天快快乐乐地过着高品质的人生，似乎他们的生活就是比别人过的好。而许多人忙忙碌碌地劳作却只能维持生计。其实，人与人之间并没有多大的区别。但为什么有许多人能够获得成功，能够克服万难去建功立业，有些人却不行？
不少心理学专家发现，这个秘密就是人的“心态”。一位哲人说： “你的心态就是你真正的主人。”一位伟人说：“要么你去驾驭生命，要么是生命驾驭你。你的心态决定谁是坐骑，谁是骑师。”
大概是40年前，福建某贫穷的乡村里，住了兄弟两人。他们抵受不了穷困的环境，便决定离开家乡，到海外去谋发展。大哥好像幸运些，被奴隶般卖到了富庶的旧金山，弟弟被卖到比中国更穷困的菲律宾。
40年后，兄弟俩又幸运地聚在一起。今日的他们，已今非昔比了。做哥哥的，当了旧金山的侨领，拥有两间餐馆，两间洗衣店和一间杂货铺，而且子孙满堂，有些承继衣钵，又有些成为杰出的工程师或电脑工程师等科技专业人才。
弟弟呢？居然成了一位享誉世界的银行家，拥有东南亚相当分量的山林、橡胶园和银行。经过几十年的努力，他们都成功了。但为什么兄弟两人在事业上的成就，却有如此的差别呢？
兄弟聚头，不免谈谈分别以来的遭遇。哥哥说，我们中国人到白人的社会，既然没有什么特别的才干，唯有用一双手煮饭给白人吃，为他们洗衣服。总之，白人不肯做的工作，我们华人统统顶上了，生活是没有问题的，但事业却不敢奢望了。例如我的子孙，书虽然读得不少，也不敢妄想，唯有安安分分地去担当一些中层的技术性工作来谋生。至于要进入上层的白人社会，相信很难办到。
看见弟弟这般成功，做哥哥的，不免羡慕弟弟的幸福。弟弟却说，幸运是没有的。初来菲律宾的时候，担任些低贱的工作，但发现当地的人有些是比较愚蠢和懒惰的，于是便顶下他们放弃的事业，慢慢地不断收购和扩张，生意便逐渐做大了。
以上是真实的故事，反映了海外华人的奋斗历史。它告诉我们：影响我们人生的绝不仅仅是环境，心态控制了个人的行动和思想。同时，心态也决定了自己的视野、事业和成就。
有两位年届70岁的老太太，一位认为到了这个年纪可算是人生的尽头，于是便开始料理后事；另一位却认为一个人能做什么事不在于年龄的大小，而在于怎么个想法。于是，她在70岁高龄之际开始学习登山，其中几座还是世界上有名的。就在最近还以95岁高龄登上了日本的富士山，打破攀登此山年龄最高的纪录。她就是著名的胡达·克鲁斯老太太。
70岁开始学习登山，这乃是一大奇迹。但奇迹是人创造出来的。成功人士的首要标志，是他思考问题的方法。一个人如果是个积极思维者，实行积极思维、喜欢接受挑战和应付麻烦事，那他就成功了一半。胡达·克鲁斯老太太的壮举正验证了这一点。
一个人能否成功，就看他的态度了！成功人士与失败者之间的差别是：成功人士始终用最积极的思考、最乐观的精神和最辉煌的经验支配和控制自己的人生。失败者则刚好相反，他们的人生是受过去的种种失败与疑虑所引导支配的。
有些人总喜欢说，他们现在的境况是别人造成的。这些人常说他们的想法无法改变。但是，我们的境况不是周围环境造成的。说到底，如何看待人生把握人生由我们自己决定。
参考资料http://www.xintaiba.com/article/93/xinggexintai/5374.html
Decide the fate mentality
Why do some people than other people is more successful, make more money, have good work, good interpersonal skills, good health, happy to live a full day of high quality of life, it seems that their life is over Others had the good. And many people busy and crafts can only maintain their livelihood. In fact, between people and there is not much difference. But why do many people can be successful, be able to overcome Wannan to make contributions, some people are not »
Many psychologists found that the secret is the "mentality." A philosopher said: "your mind is your real masters." A great man said: "Either you control the lives, either to control your life. Your mind to decide who is the horse, who is the jockey."
Probably 40 years ago, a poor village in Fujian, the two brothers lived. They arrived in the environment can not stand the poor, they decided to leave his hometown, to seek overseas development. Big Brother seems more fortunate, as slaves were sold to the affluent San Francisco, the younger brother was sold to China more than the poor of the Philippines.
40, the brothers also lucky enough to get together. Today, they have a今非昔比. Do brother, when the San Francisco of the overseas Chinese, has two restaurants, two laundry and a Zahuo Pu, but Zisunmantang, some inherited legacy, and some become an outstanding engineer or computer engineer, and other technology professionals.
Brother? » Actually became a world-renowned bankers, with a considerable amount of forests in Southeast Asia, rubber plantation and the banks. After several decades of efforts, they succeeded. But why two brothers in the cause of the achievements, there is such a difference »
Brother-head, respectively, since inevitably talk about the experience. My brother said, we Chinese people to the white community, since there is no special competence, with only a white hands to eat meals, washing clothes for them. In short, whites refused to do the work, we Chinese统统hand, life is no problem, but they dare not expect the cause. For example, my children and grandchildren, read a book while many, not wishful thinking, the only way to play Ann Building Members present at some of the middle-level technical work to make a living. As to enter the top of the white community, I believe it is very difficult to do so.
See my brother so successful, so my brother, my brother can not envy the well-being. His brother said, is not lucky. Philippines to the beginning of time, as more Dijian work, but found that some local people are more stupid and lazy, so they give up the top of their cause, slowly continued acquisition and expansion of the business will gradually expand.
The above is true story, reflects the history of the struggle overseas Chinese. It tells us: no impact on our lives is not only the environment, the attitude control of the individual actions and thinking. Meanwhile, the mentality has decided its own vision, the cause and achievements.
Two years of 70-year-old woman, a view that at this age can be said to be the end of life, so they started cooking funeral; Another is that a person can do is not the size of the age, but how Thought. Thus, in her 70-year-old started learning of the climbers, including several well-known or the world. Just recently a 95-year-old also appeared on the Japan's Mount Fuji, climbing the mountain to break the oldest record. She is the famous Da Cruz-old woman.
70-year-old began to learn mountain climbing, this is a miracle. But miracles are created by people. The success of the primary signs that he thought the problem. If a person is a positive thinking, positive thinking and like to accept challenges and cope with trouble, he's successful by half. Da Cruz-old woman's feat was verified this point.
The success of a person depends on his attitude! Successful and the difference between the losers are: the most successful people always use the positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most glorious experience of domination and control over their own life. Losers while on the contrary, their life is subject to the past failures and concerns dominated by the guide.
Some people always like to say, they are now the situation is caused by others. These Ren Changshuo their ideas can not be changed. However, our situation is not caused by the surrounding environment. After all, how to view life from the grasp of our own life decisions
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第1个回答 2008-09-13
英文:
A person's fate is determined by the self-consciousness, the meaning of this statement, including the subconscious. Because the positive psychological hint to the regular, long-term, which means that a positive self-automatically enter the subconscious, the impact of consciousness, only to change the subconscious, will become a habit. � subconscious is already accustomed to a natural, no intention to control the mental activities. According to the structure of nature, human beings fully able to control through various sensory organ into the subconscious of all kinds of information to stimulate and material strength.However, this does not mean that people often go to use their control, and in most cases, many people do not use this control. If people can be masters of their own, how many people will have a negative attitude, the lowly life of the poor? » � subconscious like a piece of fertile land, if not above the seed sown sense of success, will be full of weeds, a barren.That is self-sown seeds of what kind of control over the media, a person can be implied by the positive psychological automatically to the success of seeds and creative thinking indoctrination into the subconscious of the vast fertile soil. On the contrary, can also educate the seeds of negative thinking or destructive due to the subconscious of this fertile land full of weeds.
First, through the psychological role that the success of a psychological, to develop a positive attitude of the general principles can become a specific operation of the ways and means. In other words, change awareness, develop a positive attitude, we should from the start that the self-psychological. �
Second, the psychological hint of self-consciousness is "conscious" of communication between the subconscious and the media. People's thinking and behavior can not all be conscious choice and control, through the regular long-lasting positive hinted that the self-confidence to take the initiative to get through the current and subconsciously, this is the real magic of a great self-consciousness.
Third, because of psychological hint of the content is concrete and practical, adhere to a positive self-awareness must also choose to establish their goals, but the main objective will be infiltration in the subconscious, as a model or blueprint for the domination of your Live and work. �
Fourth, through the psychological hint of this specific reality, the link can operate, we can complexity of the success of psychology comprehensively, into simple and clear and unwavering confidence and will, and can immediately action. It is precisely because of psychological domination that can directly affect your actions, so "you decide whether self-consciousness, the success of" this sentence is on the more.
Psychologists pointed out that the establishment of faith is the best way to self-implied. Implied by the self-change you, and you import the road to success. Eliminate inertia, in order to have a positive, creative life, we must extensively to utilize self-implied. �
Self-hinted that the outbreak is the inner strength, self-help of many ordinary people have suggested to success. Internally in the self-telling "I should do." � However, the majority of the people of the world, not for their own work, or even "not for their own and make the best use of their", but to live in the heart of the evaluation of others, they live in is really hard all due.
To maintain a certain their positive and progressive, work for the people. Are not suspected of any moment will achieve their ultimate success of the cause of the capacity. These suspected to be unspeakable, and they will destroy your creativity, so that you lose vision. You must constantly said to myself: "I will have my needs, this is my right, I will certainly have everything I need."If your mind has always kept to this idea that you are born to succeed, we must have health and happiness, you are born is useful to people, in addition to your own, the world's nothing to stop you get all this, Well, you would have thought of such a cumulative, incremental, very attractive results.
We must develop a firm belief that their will eventually win, will be the success of good habits, must be strong, firmly establishing this conviction, so that soon you will be surprised to find that you extremely anxious and looking forward to And your efforts to strive for the goal can be achieved.
中文
一个人的命运是由自我意识决定的，这句话的含义就包括了潜意识。因为积极的心理暗 示要经常进行，长期坚持，这就意味着积极的自我暗示能自动进入潜意识，影响意识，只有 潜意识改变了，才会成为习惯。� 潜意识就是已经习惯成自然，不用有意控制的心理活动。根据大自然的构造，人类完全 能够控制经由各种感觉器官进入潜意识的各种信息刺激和物质力量。但是，这并不等于人们 随时随地经常地运用自己的控制力，而在绝大多数情况下，许多人并不运用这种控制力。如 果人们都能主宰自己，怎么会有那么多人心态消极，一生贫苦卑贱呢？� 潜意识就像一块肥沃的土地，如果不在上面播下成功意识的良种，就会野草丛生，一片 荒芜。自我暗示就是播撒什么样的种子的控制媒介，一个人可以经由积极的心理暗示，自动 地把成功的种子和创造性的思想灌输进入潜意识的大片沃土。相反，也可以灌输消极的种子 或破坏性的思想，而使潜意识这块肥沃的土地野草丛生。
第一， 通过心理暗示的作用，把树立成功心理、发展积极心态这个总原则变成了可以具 体操作的方式和手段了。就是说，转变意识、发展积极心态，就要从心理上的自我暗示做起 。�
第二， 心理暗示是人的自我意识中“有意识”和潜意识之间的沟通媒介。人的思想行为 不可能一切都要有意识地选择和控制，通过经常持久的积极暗示，让自信主动的电流与潜意 识接通，这才是真正的具有巨大魔力的自我意识。�
第三， 由于心理暗示的内容是具体的、实际的，所以坚持积极的自我意识也就必然要选 择确立自己的目标，而且主要的目标将渗透在潜意识中，作为一种模型或蓝图支配你的生 活和工作。�
第四， 通过心理暗示这个具体实际、可以操作的环节，我们能把内容复杂的成功心理学 融会贯通，化作简单明确而又坚定不移的信心和意志，并且可以立刻行动。正因为心理暗示 能够直接支配影响你的行动，所以，“自我意识决定你有无发展、能否成功”这句话就变得 更加实在了。�
心理学家指出，建立信念的最佳方法就是自我暗示。经由自我暗示而改变你，并将你导 入成功之路。杜绝惰性，为了产生积极性、创造性的人生，必须广泛地活用自我暗示。�
自我暗示是内在力量的爆发，许多普通人曾借助自我暗示走向成功。对内在的自我诉说 “我应该办得到”。�
但是，多数的世人，并不是为了自己而工作，甚至“不是为了自己而善用自己”，却耿 耿于怀地活在他人的评价中，他们活得真是辛苦之至。�
一定要使自己保持一种积极向上、奋发有为的心态。任何时刻都不能怀疑自己最终将取 得事业成功的能力。这些怀疑是极其可怕的，它们会毁灭你的创造力，使你失去抱负。你一 定要不断地对自己说：“我必定会拥有我所需要的，这是我的权利，我将来肯定会拥有我所 需要的一切。”如果你的头脑中始终坚持这种思想，即你是生来就要取得成功，就要拥有健 康和幸福，你生来就是有用之人，除了你自己，世界上没有任何东西能阻止你得到这一切， 那么，你的这种思想将会产生一种累积的、渐增的、极富魅力的效果。�
一定要养成一种坚信自己最终将会获胜，将会取得成功的良好习惯，一定要坚强地、坚 定地树立这种信念，这样，很快你将会惊异地发现，你极其渴望、期盼和你努力为之奋斗的 目标是能够实现的。
A person's fate is determined by the self-consciousness, the meaning of this statement, including the subconscious. Because the positive psychological hint to the regular, long-term, which means that a positive self-automatically enter the subconscious, the impact of consciousness, only to change the subconscious, will become a habit. � subconscious is already accustomed to a natural, no intention to control the mental activities. According to the structure of nature, human beings fully able to control through various sensory organ into the subconscious of all kinds of information to stimulate and material strength.However, this does not mean that people often go to use their control, and in most cases, many people do not use this control. If people can be masters of their own, how many people will have a negative attitude, the lowly life of the poor? » � subconscious like a piece of fertile land, if not above the seed sown sense of success, will be full of weeds, a barren.That is self-sown seeds of what kind of control over the media, a person can be implied by the positive psychological automatically to the success of seeds and creative thinking indoctrination into the subconscious of the vast fertile soil. On the contrary, can also educate the seeds of negative thinking or destructive due to the subconscious of this fertile land full of weeds.
First, through the psychological role that the success of a psychological, to develop a positive attitude of the general principles can become a specific operation of the ways and means. In other words, change awareness, develop a positive attitude, we should from the start that the self-psychological. �
Second, the psychological hint of self-consciousness is "conscious" of communication between the subconscious and the media. People's thinking and behavior can not all be conscious choice and control, through the regular long-lasting positive hinted that the self-confidence to take the initiative to get through the current and subconsciously, this is the real magic of a great self-consciousness.
Third, because of psychological hint of the content is concrete and practical, adhere to a positive self-awareness must also choose to establish their goals, but the main objective will be infiltration in the subconscious, as a model or blueprint for the domination of your Live and work. �
Fourth, through the psychological hint of this specific reality, the link can operate, we can complexity of the success of psychology comprehensively, into simple and clear and unwavering confidence and will, and can immediately action. It is precisely because of psychological domination that can directly affect your actions, so "you decide whether self-consciousness, the success of" this sentence is on the more.
Psychologists pointed out that the establishment of faith is the best way to self-implied. Implied by the self-change you, and you import the road to success. Eliminate inertia, in order to have a positive, creative life, we must extensively to utilize self-implied. �
Self-hinted that the outbreak is the inner strength, self-help of many ordinary people have suggested to success. Internally in the self-telling "I should do." � However, the majority of the people of the world, not for their own work, or even "not for their own and make the best use of their", but to live in the heart of the evaluation of others, they live in is really hard all due.
To maintain a certain their positive and progressive, work for the people. Are not suspected of any moment will achieve their ultimate success of the cause of the capacity. These suspected to be unspeakable, and they will destroy your creativity, so that you lose vision. You must constantly said to myself: "I will have my needs, this is my right, I will certainly have everything I need."If your mind has always kept to this idea that you are born to succeed, we must have health and happiness, you are born is useful to people, in addition to your own, the world's nothing to stop you get all this, Well, you would have thought of such a cumulative, incremental, very attractive results.
We must develop a firm belief that their will eventually win, will be the success of good habits, must be strong, firmly establishing this conviction, so that soon you will be surprised to find that you extremely anxious and looking forward to And your efforts to strive for the goal can be achieved.
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一个人的命运是由自我意识决定的，这句话的含义就包括了潜意识。因为积极的心理暗 示要经常进行，长期坚持，这就意味着积极的自我暗示能自动进入潜意识，影响意识，只有 潜意识改变了，才会成为习惯。� 潜意识就是已经习惯成自然，不用有意控制的心理活动。根据大自然的构造，人类完全 能够控制经由各种感觉器官进入潜意识的各种信息刺激和物质力量。但是，这并不等于人们 随时随地经常地运用自己的控制力，而在绝大多数情况下，许多人并不运用这种控制力。如 果人们都能主宰自己，怎么会有那么多人心态消极，一生贫苦卑贱呢？� 潜意识就像一块肥沃的土地，如果不在上面播下成功意识的良种，就会野草丛生，一片 荒芜。自我暗示就是播撒什么样的种子的控制媒介，一个人可以经由积极的心理暗示，自动 地把成功的种子和创造性的思想灌输进入潜意识的大片沃土。相反，也可以灌输消极的种子 或破坏性的思想，而使潜意识这块肥沃的土地野草丛生。
第一， 通过心理暗示的作用，把树立成功心理、发展积极心态这个总原则变成了可以具 体操作的方式和手段了。就是说，转变意识、发展积极心态，就要从心理上的自我暗示做起 。�
第二， 心理暗示是人的自我意识中“有意识”和潜意识之间的沟通媒介。人的思想行为 不可能一切都要有意识地选择和控制，通过经常持久的积极暗示，让自信主动的电流与潜意 识接通，这才是真正的具有巨大魔力的自我意识。�
第三， 由于心理暗示的内容是具体的、实际的，所以坚持积极的自我意识也就必然要选 择确立自己的目标，而且主要的目标将渗透在潜意识中，作为一种模型或蓝图支配你的生 活和工作。�
第四， 通过心理暗示这个具体实际、可以操作的环节，我们能把内容复杂的成功心理学 融会贯通，化作简单明确而又坚定不移的信心和意志，并且可以立刻行动。正因为心理暗示 能够直接支配影响你的行动，所以，“自我意识决定你有无发展、能否成功”这句话就变得 更加实在了。�
心理学家指出，建立信念的最佳方法就是自我暗示。经由自我暗示而改变你，并将你导 入成功之路。杜绝惰性，为了产生积极性、创造性的人生，必须广泛地活用自我暗示。�
自我暗示是内在力量的爆发，许多普通人曾借助自我暗示走向成功。对内在的自我诉说 “我应该办得到”。�
但是，多数的世人，并不是为了自己而工作，甚至“不是为了自己而善用自己”，却耿 耿于怀地活在他人的评价中，他们活得真是辛苦之至。�
一定要使自己保持一种积极向上、奋发有为的心态。任何时刻都不能怀疑自己最终将取 得事业成功的能力。这些怀疑是极其可怕的，它们会毁灭你的创造力，使你失去抱负。你一 定要不断地对自己说：“我必定会拥有我所需要的，这是我的权利，我将来肯定会拥有我所 需要的一切。”如果你的头脑中始终坚持这种思想，即你是生来就要取得成功，就要拥有健 康和幸福，你生来就是有用之人，除了你自己，世界上没有任何东西能阻止你得到这一切， 那么，你的这种思想将会产生一种累积的、渐增的、极富魅力的效果。�
一定要养成一种坚信自己最终将会获胜，将会取得成功的良好习惯，一定要坚强地、坚 定地树立这种信念，这样，很快你将会惊异地发现，你极其渴望、期盼和你努力为之奋斗的 目标是能够实现的。
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